The warehouse door swung open to reveal a transformed creative space, but the real bombshell dropped when entrepreneur Jayda Cheaves delivered a brutal truth on how to handle an ex. In a raw, unfiltered monologue captured during a property walkthrough, Cheaves laid out the only strategy she says truly works for revenge—and it has nothing to do with confrontation, exposure, or matching energy.
Cheaves, known for her business empire and candid lifestyle content, offered a sharp lesson on what she calls getting your lick back. The answer is stark: disappear and get better. She emphasized that this applies to every relationship—platonic, romantic, or family.
The key, she warned, is that it only works if you actually improve. You cannot vanish and remain a loser. The goal is to become healthier, wiser, and genuinely better.
She dismissed physical retaliation, matching negative energy, or exposing someone as ineffective. The only real get back is transformation.
The clip, posted to her 9 Mag TV channel, quickly went 𝓿𝒾𝓇𝒶𝓁 as viewers latched onto her unvarnished advice. Cheaves explained that the strategy is not about proving a point to the other person, but that it helps to have that motivation in the back of your mind. She said getting better overall feels good, boosts confidence, and ensures no one can ever meet you where you left them.
You will always show up different, smarter, cuter, with clearer skin. She declared that she becomes a new version of herself every single day.
The advice came during a tour of her renovated warehouse, a project she has been working on for months. Cheaves showed off a massive cyclorama wall, a dressing room area with curtains for three changing stations, a glam room converted from her son Loyal’s play area, and a hair station with a chair and wash bowl. She explained the space was originally just for storage, but she gutted it to create a creative and event space where she can do photoshoots, meetings, and find inspiration.
She noted the arches and ceilings were inspired by her home, using lime wash as a cheaper alternative to Venetian plaster.
Cheaves admitted she learned a hard lesson about paying contractors upfront for renovations. She said she paid everything upfront to simplify her life, but delays and issues have taught her to be more cautious. Despite frustrations, she expressed excitement about the nearly finished space, which includes a kitchen with black interior—matching her home obsession.
She invited viewers to rent the space for shoots, urging them to hit her up immediately.
The tour also included a candid moment about her last week on Accutane, a treatment she called absolutely worth it after six months. She displayed her lip liner, claiming it lasts through meals and drinks without needing touch-ups, thanks to quality vegan products. The video ended with her walking out, and the channel sign-off.
Observers note that Cheaves’ message resonates particularly with her audience, many of whom follow her for both business inspiration and personal growth advice. The dual focus on revenge through self-improvement and the entrepreneurial hustle of converting a warehouse into a revenue-generating asset underscores her public persona. She is known for turning setbacks into setups, and this latest advice appears to be another chapter in that narrative.
The timing of the release is notable, coming amid a broader cultural conversation about healing after breakups and the toxic temptation to seek petty revenge. Cheaves offers a higher road, but one that is still fueled by a desire to make the other person feel the loss. She acknowledged that sometimes having a point to prove helps, but the ultimate payoff is the personal gain.
Her warehouse renovation also serves as a metaphor: stripping down an old space to rebuild something beautiful and functional. She has been documenting the process for months, and the final tour reveals a sleek, feminine, yet professional environment. Pink accents remain as a signature, but the overall vibe is clean and modern.
As the news spreads, relationship experts and fans alike are debating the merits of the disappear-and-get-better strategy. Some praise its focus on self-worth, while others question whether any revenge motive is healthy. Cheaves seems unconcerned, moving forward with her businesses and her new space.
The warehouse now stands as a testament to her philosophy: you can tear down what no longer serves you and build something that makes you feel good. And if that makes an ex regret losing you, so be it. Cheaves is already booking rentals and planning brand reveals, proving that she practices what she preaches.
In a world where social media often amplifies 𝒹𝓇𝒶𝓂𝒶 and public call-outs, her message to disappear and get better feels almost revolutionary. It requires discipline and patience, but Cheaves insists it is the only way that truly hurts the person who wronged you. Because they will see you thriving, and they will know they can never have that version of you again.
The video ends with her noting that she looks “stupid” for being in the unfinished space, but she still loves her contractors. It’s a human moment that grounds her advice in reality. Renovations and revenge both take time, and neither is pretty in the middle.
But the finished product, whether a warehouse or a healed heart, is worth the wait.
For now, Jayda Cheaves is leading by example, turning her warehouse into a money-making hub and her exes into background noise. The lick back is real, and it’s better than any punch.
